Between ages 3 and 5, children develop better control over the small muscles in their hands and fingers. By age 3, they can move each finger more precisely and start holding crayons or utensils like grown-ups. They begin to notice how objects fit together and learn to build towers, pour water carefully, and even manage simple clothing tasks like unbuttoning.
At this age, children also love to experiment with art supplies like clay, paint, and scissors. At first, their creations might be playful scribbles, but soon they’ll start imagining and planning what they want to make before they begin. This shift helps them practice even finer hand movements.
By ages 4 and 5, your child’s coordination is almost fully developed. They can dress themselves, brush their teeth with a little help, and may even tie their shoes. Their drawings become more detailed and purposeful, showing people with faces and other features. They enjoy crafts, games, and building projects that challenge their growing skills. These activities not only boost their hand-eye coordination but also build self-esteem as they create and succeed.
Why This Matters
Strong hand and finger skills support your child’s ability to do everyday tasks—like eating, dressing, and playing—which are key steps toward independence. Encouraging these skills helps your child feel proud and ready to take on new challenges.
Try This at Home
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Offer simple puzzles, pegboards, or blocks to build with.
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Let your child practice coloring, cutting with safety scissors, and playing with clay.
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Involve them in safe household tasks like using a lightweight hammer, screwdriver, or helping in the garden.
Remember to supervise closely with tools, and celebrate their efforts to keep learning fun and confidence growing!
Source: Adapted from American Academy of Pediatrics. (2019). Caring for Your Baby and Young Child: Birth to Age Five (7th ed.). Last updated July 28, 2022.